@freemo Hmm, i see now that i am "awaiting approval" with someone i followed before. I had no quarrel whatsoever with that user, so i would not know why they would block me. Could it be that the instance was the one that defederated and now there's a bug?
@admitsWrongIfProven not really mostly very small.insrances of 1 to 10 users. The one larger server i know unsuspended us.
If we were suspended the users would usually look inactive and youd be unabke to follow.