Just had a guy and his two kids in the shop, the oldest was 4 1/2, she told me so proudly ... She had a beautiful lavender cardigan on and matching socks ... I told her I loved that colour, we had a little chat about purple and all the purple things we have ... Then she asked me "are you a girl?" ... I looked at her dad and said can I let her know, he said yes
I crouched down to her level and said "that's a nice question you asked" ... and then said "I was born a boy, yuck, and for many reasons I always felt like a girl" ... Her eyes lit up, and I got a huge hugz and she whispered in my ear, "you're a girl"
I am more than likely the first trans person she has met, I made her feel comfortable and listened to ... one at a time ... Her dad thanked me for being kind.
Never dismiss a childs question, you might feel they are abrupt, they are not, they just want to know
First impression are important
Hugz & xXx
Actual poll: overwhelming majorities support laws prohibiting discrimination against trans people.
WaPo headline and reporter's tweet: "Most Americans support anti-trans policies favored by GOP."
Just straight-up lying.
https://files.kff.org/attachment/Topline-KFF-Washington-Post-Trans-Survey.pdf
It was Thursday night and we were chilling on the intellectual dark web. Jordan was torrenting the James Watson bootleg that just dropped. Pinker was like “You know what doesn’t matter in science anymore?” Cowen guessed “GRE scores?” but no and Lindsay said “the art of the blade?” and everyone was all wait how the fuck did he get back in here and by the time that got sorted it was bedtime but when Pinker dropped a truth bomb “merit” we knew there would be no sleep to be has for us that night.
I don't know who needs to hear this but
The postal service exists to deliver letters and parcels to people
Not to make money for shareholders
The transport system exists to move people to where they need to go
Not to make money for shareholders
The water, gas, and electricity supplies exist to provide people vital utilities
Not to make money for shareholders
The healthcare system exists to ensure (and that's ENsure, not INsure) the health of the population
Not to make money for shareholders
Shareholders in vital public services are a vampiric drain on those services
Capitalism is a disease
@ProPublica
"Roughly 20 years ago, Martin, Thomas and the Crows went on a cruise on the yacht in Russia and the Baltics, according to Martin and two other people familiar with the trip. The group toured St. Petersburg in a rented helicopter and visited the Yusupov Palace, the site of Rasputin’s murder, said one of the people. They were joined by Chris DeMuth, then the president of the conservative think tank the American Enterprise Institute."
They always end up visiting russia at some point 🤔
Happy #StarWarsDay. Please take a moment to appreciate Count Dooku's balcony in Attack of the Clones (2002).
Kiss the night sky goodbye https://www.washingtonpost.com/national-security/2023/04/06/elon-musk-china-starlink-pla China’s military aims to launch 13,000 satellites to rival Elon Musk’s Starlink #astronomy #pollution #militarization
Get excited folks: on this week’s OTM it’s a @pluralistic takeover! It’s Enshittification: radio-edition.
Remarkable that I've given more money to Fox News in the last 5 years than I have to all political candidates in my life.
I'm not arguing w the fact that AI poses risks. I AM ceaselessly annoyed by the pattern
This is not new or novel. It was women -
@timnitGebru, @mmitchell_ai, me, et al - who rang the AI alarm years ago & were retaliated against, pushed out for doing so.
https://www.nytimes.com/2023/05/01/technology/ai-google-chatbot-engineer-quits-hinton.html
N.B.: @nytopinion no longer publishes @realJennyBoylan's writing about trans issues, b/c they would rather publish anti-trans bilge from cis morons.
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RT @froomkin
"No one who embarks upon a life as a trans person in this country is doing so out of caprice, or a whim, or a delusion. We are living these wondrous and perilous lives for one reason only — because our hearts demand it." By @realJennyBoylan
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opin…
https://twitter.com/froomkin/status/1653104906549567493
Lil Nathan and the Zydeco Big Timers on the Fais Do Do stage. Beautiful sunny day to be at #jazzfest #neworleans .
@jeffjarvis written by someone who clearly does not understand that humans have been finding ways to be in the same room or in public not interacting with each other since the start of rooms. May I introduce him to books and newspapers (I mean, you could create a whole people blocking cone with an open newspaper). People are lonely because of capitalism and not having enough time to chill with friends and family, and because advertising keeps telling us we're not beautiful/rich/perfect enough to be loved (even if we buy all the things meant to solve this) and that being vulnerable (essential for intimacy) means you are weak and deserve to be harmed. Capitalism is making us lonely, not phones or the internet (which are means to communicate with each other but capitalism has turned them into marketing tools and us into product trying to market ourselves as we fight for attention as a poor substitute for intimate connection and truly being seen and accepted).
Vocation: Oceanographer developing numerical modeling/data assimilation/coupled ensemble forecast systems on #HPC platforms mostly using FORTRAN/ksh/python.
Avocation: Mentor/coach for grade 7-12 FIRST #FRCrobotics and #FTCrobotics competition teams, so jack of all trades in/adjacent to closed-loop control and navigation, computer vision, digital graphics, CAD/CAM, 3Dprinter/laser cutter/CNC router and other shop fab. #omgrobots