#attachment

Why #Emotional #Regulation and #Attachment Matter in #Sex

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/happy-healthy-relationships/202503/why-emotional-regulation-and-attachment-matter-in-sex

Why do our first loves feel so intense? Science has answers https://www.byteseu.com/832645/ #Addiction #Anthropology #attachment #dopamine #evolution #hormones #love #memory #neuroscience #oxytocin #Science

#love #freedom #attachment #relationship

#Sensuality, #Contact, and #Attachment

https://www.buddhistdoor.net/features/sensuality-contact-and-attachment/
#relationships #buddhism

Detailed visualization of the regional attachment of people in several European countries, based on data from the European Quality of Government Index 2021 #attachment

https://brilliantmaps.com/european-attachement/

As a facilitator, working with both sides of an issue with a group can be hard. Doing so challenges me to practice non-attachment.

https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/facilitation/2023/03/working-with-both-sides

#facilitation #moderation #attachment #WinLose #WinWin #MeetingDesign #assnchat

What is the relationship between connection and attachment when people come together at meetings? A painting by John Singer Sargent offers a clue.

https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/connection-2/2022/10/connection-attachment

#meetings #connection #attachment #learning #relationships #meditation

BDG feature: The Sober Path -- Nina Müller offers advice on remaining sober yet festive during the holiday season

Read here: https://tinyurl.com/5e6ajsw5

#buddhism #buddhistpractice #sobriety #addicition #sober #aa #precepts #christmas #holidays #attachment #mindfulness

"Capital’s answer [to the 1970s crisis] was the neoliberal revolution, directed against the democratic nation-state […]. The search was now on for improved motivational techniques, aimed at making the progress of capitalist accumulation more independent of politically mediated social and economic concessions. A central role in capital’s fight against the apathy of its retainers and the stagnation of capital accumulation caused by it was played by increased competitive pressures on the workers of the ‘affluent societies’ of the West, domestically by ‘deregulation’ and across national borders by ‘globalisation’, forcing them to work harder and submit themselves more obediently to unpredictably fluctuating market conditions, by developing the new kind of ‘governmentality’ that has been so strikingly portrayed by Michel Foucault."

Wolfgang Streeck’s in “Taking back Control? States and State Systems after Globalism”

#criticalTheory #neoliberalism #attachment #optimism #beliefs #inflation #capitalism #bioPolitics

New research on #kids and #attachment: There’s been a long-standing notion held by many psychologists that early attachment behaviors are mainly determined by a child’s temperament.

No: Even children with characteristics of a difficult temperament can benefit from the advantages that come from multiple secure attachments.
https://buff.ly/4fXdwis

What is the relationship between connection and attachment when people come together at meetings? A painting by John Singer Sargent offers a clue.

https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/connection-2/2022/10/connection-attachment

#meetings #connection #attachment #learning #relationships #meditation

As a facilitator, working with both sides of an issue with a group can be hard. Doing so challenges me to practice non-attachment.

https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/facilitation/2023/03/working-with-both-sides

#facilitation #moderation #attachment #WinLose #WinWin #MeetingDesign #assnchat

endure thoughts
bombarding the mind
like hailstorm

or

embrace thoughts
besprinkling the mind
like raindrops

attachment or equanimity

#Poetry #Senryu
#Wisdom #Philosophy #Buddhism
#Mindfulness #Equanimity #Attachment

Easier said than done.
Beginner's mind becomes a lot more difficult after the first hit.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shoshin

Sharing Your Husband: Adult Attachment Styles and Emotional Responses of Israeli Bedouin-Arab Women to Potential Polygynous Marriage

https://www.mdpi.com/1660-4601/21/10/1281

#research #psychology #marriage #polygamy #attachment #mentalhealth #anxiety

Today's poem:

From “Spanish Folk Songs”
- by Salvador De Madariaga

https://www.tumblr.com/ukdamo/762495227875442688/from-spanish-folk-songs?source=share

#poetry #SalvadorDeMadariaga #attachment #closeness #sadness #love #solitude

What is the relationship between connection and attachment when people come together at meetings? A painting by John Singer Sargent offers a clue.

https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/connection-2/2022/10/connection-attachment

#meetings #connection #attachment #learning #relationships #meditation

@MisterMadge Probably possible though the whole thing about most jobs is that it's actively working against most people and even the workers themselves, as a kind of 'drive' or stress towards doing more of it from some kind of attached need (the attachment theory) like a child that needs a parent (or "parent" company) and then "does stuff" to others and not to you... but what goes around definitely comes around by design.

#deliberate #design #intentional #fuckery #enshitification by #attachment #theory

Liked the picture, had a speck on my screen and though that was the hawk in the distance until I scrolled and it moved :)

"It is awkward and it is threatening to detach from what is already not working."

Lauren Berlant wrote in "Cruel Optimism" (page 263)

Book presentation: 'A relation of cruel optimism exists when something you desire is actually an obstacle to your flourishing. Offering bold new ways of conceiving the present, Lauren Berlant describes the cruel optimism that has prevailed since the 1980s, as the social-democratic promise of the postwar period in the United States and Europe has retracted. People have remained attached to unachievable fantasies of the good life—with its promises of upward mobility, job security, political and social equality, and durable intimacy—despite evidence that liberal-capitalist societies can no longer be counted on to provide opportunities for individuals to make their lives “add up to something.”'

#criticalTheory #philosophy #psychology #sociology #neoliberalism #queer #attachment #optimism #believe #faith #hope #Berlant #LaurenBerlant

What is the relationship between connection and attachment when people come together at meetings? A painting by John Singer Sargent offers a clue.

https://www.conferencesthatwork.com/index.php/connection-2/2022/10/connection-attachment

#meetings #connection #attachment #learning #relationships #meditation

And in English: a friend of mine is doing her master #research in #psychology on links between #asmr and #attachment styles.

If you listen to / watch asmr content, feel free to take a moment to fill this brief #survey !
#academia #academicchatter

https://framaforms.org/asmr-and-adult-attachment-styles-1715859920