I think I’ve synthesized what bothers me in Budgie’s attitude:
if you like good clothes (or obsessive‑like cleanliness), they empower you, you cherish them, you live by example, inspire others so they are free to say “that dude looks cool, maybe I’ll incorporate some posh in my clothing style too”. That’s cool. That’s admirable.
BUT. When you start **judging others based on your arbitrary preferences**. Then you sound like a catholic saying to others that they should be more “catholical”—which is bonkers.