Walking around a friend's apartment helping them process everything.

Point to a dresser whose surface is packed to the brim with *stuff*.

I ask if they're comfortable with everything here, if it all looks good, she just kind of nods explaining that it all belongs there.

I point to about four rolled posters, pinned between the dresser and the wall. "Are you sure? It looks like you may want to hang these up."

She looks at them. "Oh. Yeah."

"It's amazing how quickly the things you want to do just become part of the scenery."