Much has been said of how the #UnitedHealthcare dude was apparently a wonderful father/husband/family man/etc. I'm sure his family would have thought so, and I understand that they will be feeling their loss, but I find it impossible to reconcile "being a good father" with "being personally responsible for other peoples' kids experiencing unnecessary pain, disability or death and fine with that".

If you claim to be a good parent but are content to let other peoples' kids experience trauma you'd never allow your own kids to go through then you're not a good parent, you're a shitty human being.