@ch33sl3y I get it--I tend to be surprised by some people's inability to self moderate, and exposure therapy is a thing. I'm less concerned about those who think they're creepy, but would feel bad if a true (i.e., clinical) arachnophobe had a bad day because of me.
@arctangent oh yeah, I don't want anyone to have a bad day because of me. But I also can't be anxious about every decision because that could soon stop me doing anything.