@ch33sl3y a cutie for sure! You might want to consider a CW next time, for the ooked-out to arachnophobe spectrum ;)

@arctangent I hadn't really thought about it to be honest. I posted a bunch of feeding videos on the other site and the gram without CW and no one ever said anything. Apart from one guy told me he scrolls quick past my spider posts.😅 Fascination can beat fear, and it's my intention to fascinate not frighten. People might be triggered by *anything* so it's hard to judge for everyone.🤔

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@ch33sl3y I get it--I tend to be surprised by some people's inability to self moderate, and exposure therapy is a thing. I'm less concerned about those who think they're creepy, but would feel bad if a true (i.e., clinical) arachnophobe had a bad day because of me.

@arctangent oh yeah, I don't want anyone to have a bad day because of me. But I also can't be anxious about every decision because that could soon stop me doing anything.

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