+bonifartius 𒂼𒄄 @bonifartius@qoto.org

of course excepting rape where early abortions are a valid thing:

unwanted pregnancies are really the worldly manifestation of "fuck around and find out".

if you have sex, it should be with someone you can at least remotely imagine raising a child with _properly_. there is no guarantee to not get pregnant with contraception. either you accept this or better keep your private parts seperate. there is no "right to have sex without consequences" except for going solo. "walk out the door, go home, jerk off", it's time tested, solid advice.

actions and consequences, and no one wants to bear consequences anymore.

this gardening season wasn't really "fruitful" so far. really haven't had enough time to properly tend it.

at least i have a good feeling now what gets eaten by the slugs (almost everything) and what grows well here now.

fava beans are doing well. shrugs off slugs and lice pretty good. peas are also doing quite fine. maybe it's just a good place for nitrogen fixers :)

also, the raspberries growing here by chance are pretty tasty, i really have to read into how to cut them properly, i want more of them :D backberries are doing well too, but that's to be expected :P