+bonifartius 𒂼𒄄 @bonifartius@qoto.org

@TheVeryLutheranHousewife

This post is good but the thread is making me angry. You say anything about how good women get screwed by bad men and these angry dudes have to jump in and tell everybody about how they could totally get screwed by bad women. Great thanks dude, nobody cares, that's not what we were talking about. Nobody wants your opinion on crappy women, we're talking about good women. Nobody wants your opinion on good men, we're talking about bad men.
> Uhhhh but what about divorce financially raping me???!?!?!???!!
I don't care. I really don't. You're so angry that marriage might possibly end up a net negative for you, which tells me you're too selfish to be married. Marriage is something meant to be selfless, where you give all of yourself to somebody else. If you're bean counting and afraid of getting screwed, your marriage will fail and you will deserve it.
> Bad women evil, destroy man!!!
Again, I don't care. You don't care about women getting abused by men so I don't care about you getting abused by a woman. You have interjected into a conversation about how we can look after girls and women because you can't stand something not being about you. I don't care about your feelings because they're selfish. You shouldn't get married and have kids because apparently the question of how to safely raise girls is of no interest to you. Apparently your only concern about our toxic culture is your own welfare, not how to raise responsible sons and virtuous daughters.
> Women will take everything you own so I will never get married
It's just so dumb. There are so many ways for this to happen and you only seem to know about the obvious ones. Live with a woman for two years? You're de facto married. Have kids with your girlfriend? You need to pay child support. Most of the cost of divorce is the child support. If you want to stay childless then do that. You complain about your crappy job and you're worried some sexy woman is going to give you two years of great sex and then take half your stuff? That's charity work on her part and you're getting the better end of the bargain.

Either give up or stay in the game, either way stop whining. Either you want wife and kids or you don't. Jumping into unrelated threads to tell everybody about how hard you have it will get you no sympathy from me. You demonstrate no interest in the needs of anybody else, so nobody will care about yours.

@TheVeryLutheranHousewife

The masculine gift is rational vision. The twisting of that gift is to focus only on their own problems and ignore the needs of others. It is rational, logical, callous.
The feminine gift is empathic care. The twisting of that gift is to care only about their own feelings and not about the feelings of others. It is emotional, intuitive, hysterical.

You only need one bad partner to ruin a marriage.

I hate gitlab

#NoAgendaBannedCamp

When people build things which are
of the people, by the people, for the people,
others come afterward seeking to coopt what was built to gain control for political forces, and/or profit.

There are a few ways to fight this, but only one sure way…
make things unscalable.
make them open, easily replicable for individuals and even small groups, but worthless for huge centralized projects.

example, Gopher.
small, fast, light, effective at organizing and presenting information.
nearly impossible to serve ads over, stream porn over, or gather effective metadata from.

if you want to prevent centralized control, build with technology that is useless to centralization.

@fightknightHERO But "fucking" women does hurt them. Being used for sex and reduced to sex, any sexual act outside of the loving christian marital union causes immense pain, trauma, suffering and literal brain damage that harms future abilities to pair bond. Sex is not just a fun play thing it has a lifelong impact

Do you not understand that this is the problem? Girls and women are traumatised and brain broken from being treated as a piece of meat the moment they start going through puberty, and some men will go to extremely horrible lengths to get that satisfaction from them.

Some women lean into it and sexualise themselves to give in to such demands and cope by saying it takes some sort of power back, some women become sex repulsed and begin to hate men. But ultimately we all are hurting inside

And this is why trains are the superior why of locomotion.

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"Seine Anwälte hätten das Video schon im Ermittlungsverfahren an die Staatsanwaltschaft schicken können, dann hätte die den Feuerwehrmann wohl nie angeklagt. Doch der wollte gerade nicht, dass dieser Fall wie so viele einfach in den Akten verschwindet. Er wollte etwas anderes: einen Freispruch. Und vor allem: 'Ein Exempel statuieren', sagt sein Anwalt..."

#polizeigewalt

https://12ft.io/proxy?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.zeit.de%2Fgesellschaft%2F2022-11%2Fpolizeigewalt-hamburg-prozess-corona-protest%2Fkomplettansicht

@Seirdy I'm not sure if it's a common ADHD thing but I tend to select and deselect text frequently while reading on websites, so sites that have pop-up UI when text is selected, or where there's a click handler somewhere in the text content hierarchy are awful for me. I've seen this a few times with sites trying to provide "helpful" tools for using the text selection. I hate it.

I’d like to request some more accessibility related feedback for my post, “Best practices for inclusive textual websites”. Specifically from neurodivergent people, especially from people with ADHD, dyscalculia, dyslexia, and sensitivity to overstimulation. What makes websites annoying to you? You don’t need to read the article to give feedback; I’m all ears.

If you do want to give it a read but find it too long, feel free to skip ahead to the “What contrast algorithms don’t cover: over-saturation” section to see what I already have on the topic: I cover the complex overlap between contrast algorithms, over-saturated colors, emergency colors (yellow, red), dark themes, halation, and over-stimulation.

A topic I hope to cover soon is reduced-motion and vestibular disorders.

Boosts welcome. #accessibility

Q: what do you call someone who is attracted to needy people?

A: someone who has a dependent type

Eat your heart out gym memberships

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