@lauren Yes. This is particularly maddening in terms of the remarketing systems (the ones that keep giving users the perception that something---Facebook, Google, the Illuminati---is spying on them because they watched a bunch of YouTube videos and now they're seeing Facebook ads for the same topics as those YouTube videos).
I had a front-row seat to the design of DoubleClick's solution to that problem, and I could not explain to the average person how their privacy is protected. I mean literally: *I* don't have the talent to simplify complex concepts (nor memory of enough details to get it right), and *they* don't have the semester of computer science to grasp the tools used (such as zero-knowledge proofs). I know it works---the systems that choose the ad are double-blind so the only place in the universe where enough information collates to display the remarketed ad is the user's client---but the details of *how* it works and *why* it's hard to compromise aren't something I can convey.
... which leaves an (I think justified) mistrust in the mind of the public that the system isn't just doing the simpler solution of spying on them and sharing their private information around behind-the-scenes. I wish Google could take a communication leadership position on this topic, but I see the disincentives to do so. On the other hand, the big incentive *is* there... a sufficiently irritated public calls for these tools to be made illegal.