@asm I vote for a queen mattress. If one of the two of you is sick, or on out-of-sync schedules , it can be a big win.

Not a bed person - my spouse is more sensitive to these things than I am and I am more than happy with what she chooses. We’ve been going to platform beds rather than frames+bed springs. Doesn’t address your question though. Note that the only reason I know about California King is from your in-laws. Probably the best place to start?

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