@zefferman Other ways of leading by example: not walking off cliffs, not defecating in public, refraining from public drunkenness.
@zefferman More than that -- "refraining" implies an opportunity or impetus to do something and choosing not to. So it's possible to interpret this as implying that overtly sexist people do more leading by example if they sometimes choose not to say something sexist than do people for whom sexist thoughts simply fail to occur.
@psmaldino @zefferman Look, isn't it time we give leaders credit for the occasional times they don't sexually harrass people?