This showed up on Hacker News today, and was soundly panned as well as flagged. Which shouldn’t surprise me, I guess.
12 Things to do Instead of Calling the Cops
Most of this seems like good advice, although the HN comments point out that 1500 women are killed by domestic partners every year, so the last point might seem too passive in light of that.
I once stood outside my apartment and asked an upstairs neighbor if she needed help, rather than call the cops, and it took me longer than I wish to admit to work up the nerve to even go outside. I didn’t want her to face her ex alone, but I didn’t want to bring armed police into the situation, either. Seeing me seemed to calm the guy down quickly, and he left immediately. Realizing there was a witness, I thought at the time, although now I wonder if he was thinking the same way I was: I could call the cops, and they might shoot him first and ask questions later.
I am so sorry you were involved in that horrifying story. I think that would screw me up pretty badly, too.
I do live in the US, and in a city that requires a minimum of a four-year college degree for cops, which you might think would help. And yet somehow when I search for my city name, I see a story about how cops arrested a Black teenager, a high school senior, who was walking home from work during a winter storm. Kid spent the night in jail because he didn't want to talk to the cops.
The city website suggests the last "officer-involved shooting" was in 2021, with three in 2020, one in 2019, two in 2017, and one in 2015. It says something that I think that's actually not too bad for a city of more than 280k people.
It's terrible, of course.
They've got a "Use of Force" report for 2021 that (surprise!) finds no "out of policy" events all year, with 41 "within policy" and 7 "under investigation."
I should be happy about the accountability, but I trust cops so little that I figure at least some of those 48 would horrify me if I dug into the details.