@taedryn
In fact, as a hetero- (if at all) sexual male,
in this ever changing world in which we live in,
I consider physical sex one of the most stable invariants.
On the other hand, I find intelligent women who don't act stereotypically female and come across as androgynous (i.e., understate "gender performativity") particularly attractive
… which amounts to:
I am attracted to people of the other physical sex who make as little fuss as possible about their gender.
So, while I'm a staunch supporter of "you do you", I find trans folks annoyingly in-your-face sexist.