我好像被诸如“你陪着我就好了”“跟你一起出去玩就好了”“xxx就好了”持续地卖可怜的人给PUA了。

卖可怜的人用着温柔的语句催眠我让出我的资源放弃手头的事情，仅仅是去满足TA此刻因为短暂的冒出的随机想法，哪怕我还正处理着非常非常重要的事情。

TA是没有什么原则的人，讲起话来柔柔，这类惯性攀附思维反而更让我害怕，被迫失去资源却只为了填满TA眼前的小坑。

I seem to be emotionally controlled by people like "better stay with me", "better hang out with you", "better blah blah", and constantly selling pity.

The poor seller hypnotised me with gentle statements to give up my resources to give up the matter at hand, simply to satisfy the random thoughts that popped up in his or her mind at the moment, even though I was still dealing with very very important matters.

He or she is a man of few principles, speaking softly, this kind of habitual climbing thinking rather scares me more, being forced to lose resources but only to fill the small hole in front of him or her.