tangent about federated moderation
a bit of a tangent/braindump, but your post sparked the idea since it's public, but deals with instance-specific rules: how do you think about folks from another instance interacting with vis.social members and whether or not they respect some of those rules? It occurs to me that it would be desirable to have, for instance, everyone who I interact with *via* qoto.org follows qoto.org rules, but IDK how that happens practically. Is it reasonable to expect someone to know the rules of *every* server in the fediverse they might stumble upon? If instance admins curate other instances with compatible rules to federate with, and can rely on effective moderation on those others, it's all peachy, but for the broad "federate with everyone except these # servers", it's hard to keep it all straight.