## Attachment project

<https://www.attachmentproject.com/>

A project aiming at tackling the attachment disturbances in people. I think this is indeed very valuable and important.

> ## Let’s end the pain and suffering caused by attachment disorders

> When we heal our own pain, we can heal the next generation after us. > Pain from an attachment disorder is passed on through the family line > until someone is ready to heal it.

> Issues are intergenerational, and can often be shared across several > generations of families.

My own thoughts over the last months are indeed along these lines. Most suffering in relationships is caused by people being messed up from their childhood by their family circumstances, typically by the messed up psychology of their parents. This leads to a self-perpetuating cycle of suffering in relationships. People don't even know what it is, on their own, they just think it's that everybody is screwed up. They are not. It's each of us who needs some healing. Sometimes. The thing is, these are perfectly fixable issues. One just needs to be open to listening to this stuff, identify what's the issue, understand what's at stake and fix themselves. It's easier to say than do.