Sometimes things don't go the way you want them to and other times they do.
You can plan and plan and sometimes still not succeed.
You can sometimes not plan at all and stumble into success.
Either way, you are not your successes nor your failures.
Your value isn't how much you have or how high you've risen. It's in who you are as a person, and the empathy and kindness that you show others.
Be kind to yourself. You are unique and wonderful. Never forget that.