At this moment of rapid expansion of the fediverse I think we should give Switter a thought.
"...Switter existed as a place where moderation decisions were made with consideration of how they would impact sex workers, rather than seeing them as an expendable user base... Switter quickly became a lifesaving refuge for sex workers around the world."
AND was it shut down despite much effort against harmful legislation. This concerns everyone. Sex workers were just the canary in the coal mine.
For more info:
https://switter.at/