"If the victim is a boy, it may be even more difficult to report abuse, as boys are taught that they're supposed to want sex and that they're only ever the aggressors and never the victims. The fear of shame and disbelief may stop them from disclosure." https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/if-love-could-kill/202401/the-last-taboo-female-sexual-abuse-of-children