@TheOldGuy and this is why I don't like to be approachable as a woman, if I look unapproachable this is less likely to happen. Saying no is frequently a death sentence. I can never let my guard down because nothing is done to teach boys before they become men how to see our full humanity. How to spot this in the men around them and intervene. There are no adults who talk to boys about their feelings and how to handle them, because there's no healthcare for them or healthcare is stigmatized. And the consequence is death for me and my sisters. 😮‍💨