@dclr42 Often we have ideas but we need help; this includes the right method, encouragement, company / being around, reminders to keep going etc...
because always at some stage we get stuck or don't know how to deal with it or how to keep focus...

But also participation from others to get things done together in the world in general is also needed because a lot we do is not alone or just for us as individual. So it's hard on both these levels of 'for me' / 'with others'.

Some people are also not interested or paid to think about big essential parts of life that ironically are connected to everyone (like spirituality, the (dying) arts, mental health or checking well-being, community etc) and seem obviously part of Gov plans not to orient 'work' like this or even have job exist much towards taking care of people...

Answers for the original question,
for me personally it's potentially:

█ change in people who don't want or are half in and half out (not forcing them but matching their existing Christian-ways or virtue-signals with their actions etc). Tough one and in circle involves them looking after me.

█ GNU Linux or similar freedom-only distros to move to, when I've had the same MS style setup all this time, from when it was basically Microsoft only and less geek-level (or that was the geek-level then!)... But I'm still not sure about moving since I don't really use much.

█So habits etc also seem to come back to those around you doing better habits (relativity is important connector - like when I was training more physically will circle of friends doing same) or even people around to install it for me or convince me.

So overall individuals can do a lot alone, but sure helps if others help or already doing it to do it with you... feels like we are losing / lost that and what I was hoping Fediverse would do...