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Trusting people to help more than the Trumps of the world?

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LIST TO CONSIDER WRITING
for yourself and others to help:
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NEEDS Any personal problems / challenges / 'I could never know how to get to this point?'
(as a need)

People can send offers (things they might do daily anyway!)

OFFERS what you like doing daily already and maybe separately what you want to do more of (even if it's a bit far off now - as a dream / low chance of it happening but as "need" you need to keep working on it in doing "something"
(as an offer)

Thanks - this helps see more your side and offer you a checklist as yes / no / maybe on your side after...

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SHORT INTRO TO THAT...

AND LONGER IF NOT HAPPY WITH THAT...

("things to do for you" in both meanings of that to do yourself and for others to help with that list which becomes part of the #ecosystem of helping itself for "US" as over more-human people, not just alone in a cold system.

So talking and doing more together IS FEEDING our own "system" and #mutuality grows as part of sending that to the world / #fediverse (even if that's just helping good people one-way and not wanting anything back).

Could be like "ok done" !

CONSIDER WRITING A LIST

(optionally more writing below if you don't see why saying and doing things is a better #ecosystem of trust rather than not trusting the Trump(s) out there surely not going to do it! )

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LONGER / EXPLAINED MORE:

People often don't get that when I ask what their problems / things-to-do are, because they think it's only their problem and not common relativity / systematic cause / humanistic things systems ignore) AND so whichever way you go or do things you MUST listen to people's things (or do the humanistic things) because the system or #Trump or whoever leader IS NOT GOING TO DO IT or listen! (shock horror at ALL the people on these #Zuckerberg / #Musk / #Bezos etc hashtags #begging / #hoping for top leaders to stop extracting / plundering from planet / people).

Stop that waiting.
️ Send needs / offers

So either way it's up to us to clean our laundry and even me to clean your boxer shorts! (I mean at least AIM to do something about everything and help ourselves/you/me do it alone after initial spark given at the start or just plain #handholding and saying 'done' at the end. It's not for everyone but I'm here for you.

#Tech people often don't get this unless it's like installing Linux for people... but it's similar in all parts of life...
So handholding in other ways means "I'm shit at this so feel free to do it for me and I'll see what I can do for others in same way"

#Payitforward style (and developing people not just tech)

I tend only to think in the now and 'me and you' and once I / we find similar I think that is the way. (just two more people honestly is enough... there's plenty <of our own work> to do (not the work of others / bad people).

The whole design of 'giving' anything to people as it is to take more from them in the end and so that's why everything you do away from people will cancel out the benefits or usage (even food) as the level / growth of people stagnate and systems become more killer efficient. It's Mind over Material Matter (we did enough Material and now people 'matter' more).

So lay our you lifetime's worth of 'things to do' and 'shit to fix' and hope someone will come along to fix it :)

And I'm available to fix your stuff or get it done seriously if you think you'll never do it (seriously seriously I can sorting text / files / editing / rearranging / donkey work if it helps get you to step 2 or 10 like a good garage clean out helps sort all other projects after that's done. Put your shame aside, Trump is winning meantime #friendships are not made (or even our shit is not done as fast as their #ENshitification actually spelt with two T's in the middle / 3 in total #ENshittification ).

DO IT NOW / ADD THIS TO YOUR LIST OF #FreeSchool #THINGSTODO

Boost / bookmark BUT don't forget (which is why anything now is better than nothing and I'll have a look)

It seems it largely:

we can't just team up / invest in each other...
not even on Fediverse who seems aligned and stand for a lot...

perhaps that above is more a technical thing more than people thing (Mastodon as software, not for actually pushing people together more nicely / helping actively itself.

That's the short version above.

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The longer points below:
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Yes - People need time with this 'togetherness' thing just as 'humanity' itself... (it's like if we can do that it doesn't matter what level people are - like dojo we help each other up and see more purely from the interaction observed and copy better)

I get that online isn't easy (and often think fuck only 25years if it!) but is there anything else can I do for you? It's the finding of that answer we solve everything as-we-go or ad-hoc with whoever is passing by (and passing by more often which is the incremental factor to this or any #movement / #progress / #political thing / #anything)

PSYCHOLOGY WEAKENING?
On a serious note I think people are getting ill deeply / psychologically. Where it's even hard to speak.
Psychosomatic things means disturbances in which emotional maladjustment are almost physically stopping people moving (forward or anywhere)...

The #answer I see is only to get it all out and break through it together as partners (just accepting it all and dealing with it, to actually solve it, not just covering up or ignoring symptoms).

It feels like the more you try, the more people are feeling something which shows something is there living even if it's not ideal at the very beginning - I after wil be fine,.. better communication - otherwise it would be impossible to separate feeling itself any other way and say "RIGHT let's just deal with it as much as we can in 20mins!"

I don't want to conclude people are a complete flop or dud but seems so...

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Anyway give your opinion and any guesses about these thigns...
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1 why like-minded people might be exactly the people most skeptical?

(skilled people can be skeptical about everything which is fair)

2 Why people won't team up with those similar-minded randomly?
(maybe feel threatened or competitive I guess) or can't go deeper in testing me / people to increment something - but if can't trust from the get go, then how to increase trust?

3 why people might not reply or even block me, so even a short or long message doesn't work
(seems technically better people but still dead fish socially ?)

4 why he internet is full of pseudonyms and avatars but still today people are feeling something about accounts without name? (seems really similar to passport control where it's name and number or you're a suspect). By nature of internet it's not for everyone to be spreading all their details (especially if anti-system) and social media provides someone's profile to answer a lot of things so why is name so important or why are people happier when I fake it instead of nickname / pseudo-name on mailing lists (admins asked me to do that). Is it all that "fake" is better cover for real life and accepting people's existence?

FINAL NOTE
These things deliberately I know are challenging and 'advanced' - some will just genuinely not remember or lose messages and yes 100 thigns so it could be that = but many seem just not ready for 2-way communication ... and more one-way posting.
Even veterans in the game haven't got #communications down well and are not sucking talent / contributions or involving #participation which after years you'd think they'd perfected by now...

So maybe this is my work to do but it start with you being able to increment more happier / trusting way instead of going backwards...

Feel free to reply and contact me.
Communications seems the core of everything else.

#Friendship solves it all / is the main difference in life...

We need more than just modern Capitalism and money in between us, right?

Make #friends to use our real selves.... not just friend$ / colleague$!

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System of Friendship
by #FreeSchool
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Better Humans = #Communication & Interaction between people.

Your friends are not perfect but you live with them, even help them.

#Friendship more easily solves and accepts imperfection of which all humans are imperfect <--- very important

No need to #penalise each other so much for what is #natural.. or #compartmentalise it as wrong or right / #binary, but continuously show the work in progress and grow each other as the main "work" rather than #unhealthy #competition or destruction as show by our '#leaders' who give us unhealthy '#jobs' to do (often bad work or not improving communication).

A new system... Make friends.

Better than watching leaders in Capitalism... and not really going anywhere... Build up and support each other. Nobody else will.

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How? / The Method:
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Improve your Words / Dictionary

Clear up these meanings listed below in yourself first!

Show you CARE + RESPECT more visibly (online or offline) as well as healthy critique.

DO WHAT #CAPITALISM CUTS OUT (THE CARING!) %

GROW PEOPLE EMOTIONALLY
BY USING EMOTIONALLY BETTER WORDS...

Vocabulary words below...
Try writing a few of these as your homework or for kids!

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TRY PRINT / ADD TO WALL / FRIDGE
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For home for relationships
At work for nicer environments

WRITE THEM OUT! Help people SEE the words!

Relativity grows from people and more relativity in the world THE BETTER!... #LoveSystem #SystemofLove / #Fediverse #Friendship

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VOCABULARY
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█ Care

(close attention, concern or responsibility) (noun)

█ Clarity

(the quality, clarity or sharpness of speech)

█ Listening

(to pay attention to a sound) (verb)
(hear out until that person has finished) (verb)

█ Affinity

(characterized by affirmation, constructiveness, or influence for the better; favourable)

(affiliation - The relationship resulting from affiliating one thing with another) (noun)

(association - a connection to or an affiliation with something)

█ Experience

(event(s) of which one is cognizant) (noun)

(activity which one has performed) (noun)

█ Measurability

(able to be measured / quantified) (adjective)

(regular - with constant frequency)

█ Practiced

(actual practice or experimentation, in contrast to just theory) (noun)

(to introduce - to bring into practice)

(to grow stronger)

█ Honesty

(quality of being honest) (noun)

█ Sociability

(sociable, gregarious, affable)
(friendly, courteous, sociable) (adjective)

█ Curiosity

(inquisitiveness; the tendency to ask questions, investigate, or explore) (noun)

█ Compassion

(deep awareness of the suffering of another) (noun)

█ Imagination

(image-making power of the mind) (noun)

(creativity or creative thoughts)

█ Reliability

(regular in timing or other way)

█ Therapy

(treatment of disease) (noun)

(psychological study)

(social psychology / counseling)

(counseling / ontology (study of being) (noun)

psychosis (mental disorder or distortion) (noun)

█ Transparency

(quality of being transparent) (noun)

█ Confidence

(expression or feeling of certainty) (noun)

(self-assurance) (noun)

█ Commitment

(religious - committed to the practice of religion)

(commit - to pledge or bind; to compromise, expose, or endanger) (verb)

█ Passion

(any great emotion) (noun)

(suffering of Jesus) (noun)

(theology - study of God, or a god, or gods) (noun)

█ Respect

(tolerance) (noun)

(to have regard for the rights of others) (verb)

(self-respect - knowledge of one's own worth) (noun)

(admiration for a person)
{transitive}

(to honour - (show praiseworthiness, respect) (noun)

(to bow (to bend oneself as a gesture of respect or deference)

█ Moderation

(to a moderate, in some degree or level of presence or position) (adverb)

█ Sincerity

(quality of being sincere) (noun)

█ Logic

(method of human thought) (noun)

(theory in logic - a set of axioms and all statements derivable from them) (noun)

█ Experimentation

(thought experiment)

(practice / practical experiment - actual operation or experiment, in contrast to theory experiment)

█ Teaching

(evangelistic - enthusiasm for a cause or teaching about some parts of something)

(religious evangelism - promoting the preaching and dissemination of the Christian gospel, teachings of Jesus or any of the spiritual leaders who are assumed to be authors of the Gospels in the New Testament: Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John)

█ Appreciation
(to value highly) (verb)

(to be grateful for something) (verb)

(admiration - adoration) (noun)

█ Welfare
(health, safety, well-being, happiness and prosperity) (noun)

(humanitarian concerned with people's welfare) (adjective)

(humanity - human beings as a group) (noun)

█ Relief

(removal of stress or discomfort) (noun)

(catharsis - a therapeutic technique to relieve tension) (noun)

(assist - help) (verb)

assistant (person who assists or helps someone else)

█ Forbearance

(forbearing, forgiving, tolerant)

█ Toleration

(tolerance (ability to tolerate) (noun)

█ Awareness

awareness (the state of consciousness) (noun)

awareness (the consciousness of a state, or state of mind) (noun)

█ Openness

(receptiveness to new things) (noun)

(intimacy - feeling of closeness and openness towards someone else) (noun)

█ Reasoning

(action of the verb 'to reason') (noun)

(rational - capable of reasoning) (adjective)

█ Diversity

(quality of being diverse; difference) (noun)

(biodiversity - diversity of flora and fauna) (noun)

█ Confluence

(meeting - gathering for a purpose) (noun)

(merging of similar or different elements into a union)

(Flowing - liquid or metaphorically; flowing freely like water; fluid; not solid and not gaseous)

(mix - stir two or more substances together) (verb)

█ Fun

(have fun - enjoy oneself) (verb)

(fun - enjoyment or amusement) (noun)

(have fun - wish someone a good time) (interjection)

█ Kindness

(being kind) (noun)

(heart - emotions or kindness) (noun)

█ Patience

(quality of being patient) (noun)

(not losing one's temper while waiting) (adjective)

█ World-view

(personal view of the world) (noun)

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█ Unity - the state of being one or undivided) (noun)

█ Friendship (countable) - friendly relationship) (noun)

█ #Religion - system of beliefs dealing with soul, deity and/or life after death) (noun)

█ Balance

(to balance / counterbalance)

(to equilibrate - to bring into equilibrium)

(well-balanced; in equilibrium itself or eco-system) (adjective)

(mentally stable and free from psychological disorder) (adjective)

(Calm, serene, well-balanced, all-rounder).

█Knowledge

(fact of knowing about something; understanding, familiarity with information) (noun)

(study - mental effort to acquire knowledge) (noun)

identity (knowledge of who one is) (noun)

█Courage

(quality of a confident character) (noun)

(gutsy - marked by courage) (adjective)

(courageous (of an action, that requires courage) (adjective)

(bold courageous, daring) (adjective)

(direction - indication of the point toward which an object is moving) (noun)

█Coherence

(coherence - quality of cohering; of being coherent) (noun)

(coherent - orderly, logical and consistent) (adjective)

█Goodwill

(good-natured - of or pertaining to a perpetual kind disposition) (adjective)

(the forces or will of good) (noun)

(as a result of good will by someone / a group) (noun)

(showing friendliness or goodwill - warm, approachable)

(fair, justified) (adjective)

(self-denial - an action that sacrifices one's own benefit for the good of others) (noun)

█Health

(state of being free of physical or psychological disease, illness, or malfunction) (noun)

(psychological fitness - general level of positive or thoughts) (adjective)

(body fitness- general physical structure of a human or animal) (noun)

(cure - a method, device or medication that restores good health) (noun)

█Healthy Community

(community - group of people sharing a common understanding) (noun)

(perception - conscious understanding of something) (noun)

█Education

(process or art of imparting knowledge, skill and judgement) (noun)

(self-study (study without the aid of a formal education institution) (noun)

(self-education; self-directed learning) (noun)

█Satisfaction

(fulfilment of a need or desire) (noun)

█Perseverance

(persevere - to live, survive) (verb)

(Psychology: perseverate - repeat a response after the cessation of the original stimulus)

█Solidarity

(union of interests, purposes or sympathies among members of a group)

(unifying bond between individuals with common goal or enemy) (noun)

(psychological or material support) (noun)

to solidify (to become solid)

█Reflection

(act of reflecting, thinking more)

(careful thought or consideration) (noun)

█Empathy

(understanding situation)

(sympathy - as a person / humanity) (noun)

█Calm

(free from anger and anxiety) (adjective)

(calmly - in a calm manner) (adverb)

(condition of being unworried and free from anger) (noun)

(peaceful - motionless and calm; placid) (adjective)

(relaxation - act of relaxing or the state of being relaxed) (noun)

█Courteous

(showing regard for others) (adjective)

(affable - friendly, courteous, sociable) (adjective)

█Flexible

(easily bent without breaking) (adjective)

(flexibility - quality of being flexible) (noun)

█Understand

(know / grasp - to understand an idea or subject) (verb)

(to be aware of the meaning of) (verb)

▌(to stand under authority - "I understand this letter means XYZ terms and conditions...")

(hard experience shared in sympathy / consolation as a human being) (adjective)

█Gamification

(to treat as a sport)

(a regular "game" using of certain active variables from life and usually achievements, rewards, medals, acknowledgement given in virtual or non-virtual ways sometimes as incentive)

█Variation

(not just one way always)

(to play and have fun in other ways)

█Communication

(messages or interaction between people)

(carrier of a way, acting as messenger for a person or philosophy)

█Persistence

(continuous)

(not giving up easily)

█Understanding

(being flexible with someone or about any issue or topic)

(grasping / knowing the real core point of it all, usually from time invested and dedicated looks into something)

(empathy / sympathy)

█Exploration

(travel for the purpose of discovery)

(careful systematic search)

(systematic consideration)

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WHAT WE ALL WANT FROM OF THESE WORDS.... BECAUSE WE'RE HUMAN - I THINK THEREFORE I AM...
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We all want for love / care / respect "or else" the opposites start to occur like cancer (various levels) and things (people) get left neglected and also untrained.

We let the bad in by not doing the good basically as it's a kind of maintenance / repair-as-you go.
NOT just "we wait until it's fully broken!" or when person gets suicidal!)
Just the way things are and how things get without caring and doing the people work in every level of life during everything.

As much as you "don't have time" all these things (or their opposites) do catch up - so this is actually saving your time when you family or project doesn't fall apart!!! The damage is reduced / people don't waste our time later or bad things happen still but not without healthy use of healthy ways and even disconnection can be done better at the end and lessons learned much better ! So to practise talking now (at whatever level) pays off in the end to do more careful work together / constructing something beyond

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CAPITALISM IS BETTER FASTER NO?
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Capitalism also as we have learned CAPITALISM DOESN'T WORK - it does care for what you think or choose - it's mostly authoritarian and profit-minded.

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START YOUR OWN SYSTEM
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It can mean starting something from this perspective that communication is better - because it's true many people just won't listen - but who is also offering or training people in these things - maybe you with this printed!

Yu literally have to create life yourself if it doesn't exist (on top of existing very pure sources, like I did with this list from the dictionary !!
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THE END RESULT?
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Once you as individually and family learn to print and share these things (stick on your fridge/door), it's techniques and sentiments can "live on themselves" (in others)...

WHY YOU TEACH ME ANYTHING - YOU'RE PROFILE IS A JOKE!

Love / care / respect is an intentional system, individually carried out for overall humanity - I'm not an NGO or anything big but as a human I stand or good - measurably, words and actions.

This can also start with you and more people taking just 1 picture and having the atmosphere of it reach others (give peaceful words a chance?)... We just needs humans to spread it somewhat and daily conversations get better as and people talk more and pass better words on

Sticking it up somewhere (fridge or wall) as is a good conversation point and piece of interest / meditation / discussion during dinner etc.

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LOVE GOES OUT AND COMES BACK AROUND AND IN.
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Much love goes out to humanity, get in contact if interested...

We know how it feels without love of various kinds (at work, home, outside) - so let's not neglect any of these smaller things - I'm not even talking big "love" / hippyness, but the smaller things and bigger efforts to improve vocabulary and practice it at home / on the internet as group chats etc... all can be a better therapy

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WHY THESE WORDS?
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"System of Love" is from a list I collected over the years in my own relationships and looked them all up either from my words, partners or observations (everyone in my life!)

Related to love, care and respect needed between people more words are sometimes very crucial in heated battles or complex situations... learn well as it makes for less anger or else all hell breaks loose!

Boost if you would like to see more of these things practised in life.

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ALSO FOR THE SCIENCE TYPES
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#QOTO and #STEM perhaps are not alway emotionally minded or trained so it's also for people who don't' get exposed to why it's important to talk (to human, not just computers!).
Even as a science or biology consider of that mainly starts and ends with emotions (human input output) - check out Bruce Liption!

That goes beyond externally programming machines and more capitalistic styles of hiring people just to get stuff done - because computers and capitalism are without caring mostly and don't ask or design around what people think - it's mostly top-down authoritative (at least in modern day #STEM).

Learning love (or to love others) or even to fight well, isn't exactly what school teaches everyone so we need these kinds of posters and reminders...

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System of Love by #FreeSchool
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ANTI-WORDS DICTIONARY
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█ Globalisation - Globalisation (a process of making world economy dominated by capitalist models) (noun)

or

- process of going to a more interconnected world) (noun)

▌(credit and debit - balance of an account) which as a banking system can never be balanced as money is constantly loaned again and again creating more debt than equalisation

▌(debt / society balance - an action, state of mind, or object one has as an obligation to perform for another) (noun)

▌(money owing - that one person or entity owes or is required to pay to another) (noun)

#FreeSchool #Friendships

#Independent Humanitarian #Project Work (no #grants, #institutions etc)

Contact for more info.

#Morality + #AnimalRights #HumanRights

#Book by #OlgaTokarchuk
#Film #Spoor

#PL #Poland #English #Translation

Title "Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead: An Extraordinary Moral Tale"

https://inv.nadeko.net/watch?v=jltMaRD1rTk

#Books #Human + #Animal #Rights
#Morality #Women #Writers
by Olga Tokarchuk

The YouTube Channel is also interesting part of #Vegan #Restaurants called #LovingHut #Worldwide which has TV"
#SupremeMaster #SupremeMasterTV

Best #Etherpad / #Cryptpad / #Notes Online

Is it https://privnote.com/

I know all have different uses but:

I'm looking for most temporary / self-destruct options / encrypted in browser

Best so far is:

#PrivNote .com https://privnote.com/

What’s the problem jack?

Surveillance capitalism
Democratic drift
Closure to a single vision of society (#fascism)
Centralization of data and attention

#Framasoft / #DeGoogle
@FramasoftStatus

Support Problem solvers:
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These dominations pose many problems for our freedoms.

The web giants are so powerful that they exercise technical, economic, cultural and political domination over our societies.

#Surveillance #Capitalism #Society #Centralization
#Centralisation #Problems #Domination

#Framasoft / #DeGoogle
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Because...

#Donation page I actually like! Visually responsive...

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Joy from the success and good #fortune of others...

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May our good fortune continue and increase.

May I learn to appreciate joy and happiness.

May our joy persist and grow.

May their happiness continue.

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Your happiness makes me happy.