Improving People or only Tech? @freeschool@qoto.org

We need protecting *from* #Police #Officers

- The Government's Police Officers 👮 not ours ❌

We are funding 🔫 these things and it needs to stop ⛔ 💰 🤑

Video Example: https://invidious.jing.rocks/watch?v=nH8OQFZ2b-I&t=53m36s

Online Voice Conversations
- Towards Safer / More Intentional Community Spaces

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🔈 Audio Introduction: 🔈
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🔗 https://bin.dembased.xyz/communication-group-introduction-v5-freeschool.mp3

ANY QUESTIONS ?
YOUR FEEDBACK PLEASE.

#New #Community #Project

Keywords: #SafeSpace #Learning
#BaumDialogue + #NVC + #TGroups
#NonViolentCommunication
#Training#Authentic
#Personal #Relationship #Listening #Skills
#Relational #Communication #Audio #Conversation
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📋 Text Versions of Project 📋
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▌Authentic Communication practice.

▌Developed by the people intentionally who join.

▌The intention together is to increase the trust in practising communication and feelings with others and train ourselves better communication and learn techniques while accepting risk or offense is naturally part of like but a needed effort towards growing better people.

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📚 📖 Sources of Education 🎓
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⭐ T-Groups
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/T-groups

⭐ Bohm Dialogue
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bohm_Dialogue

⭐ Marshall Rosenberg / NVC
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_Communication

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Verbal Description
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Growing better communication might sound odd but people are increasingly becoming faster but more shallow in communicating assisted by government and technology cutting out the depths of understanding each other and simply being work based. The human sides itself are being omitted and therefore the human details and care taken out / left out.

Much like Capitalism's practices a cold system doesn't care and wants for only money and work based "work" and uses Technology (Robotic short text communication) to achieve raw work while undoubtedly humans are involved and need care or just respect.

❌ Stakes are often too high outside or offline in-person - this risks your safety (your job / livelihood and risks relationships tied to many things non-detachable unlike online presence)

✔️ / ❌ ? Offline spaces don't exist anymore as funding has been cut and we also need to solve that.

This means some risk in trying (as with offline) and developing feelings rather than falling into the trap of argument is going to save us all a lot in the future if we would like to try learn it and hear others doing well.

Doing with others helps improve us all especially since there is almost nothing like this which you don't have to pay for.

This is a free service for the betterment of yourself and others from past works sourced from people like David Baum and T-group style conversations (have a definite template and Round Robin style meetup online)

The idea here is you can practice more safely where you can't at work and even at home because the understanding and focus

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💗 System of Love 💗 by #FreeSchool 🔔 📋
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💗 📈 Better Human #Communication & Interaction between people...
A new system?... Better than only Capitalism... ?

☑️ Improving Range of Words

☑️ Clearer meanings like: LOVE / CARE/ RESPECT into specific vocabulary (below) ⬇️

+ WHAT DOES #CAPITALISM CUT OUT ✂️ ❓ ⁉️

Vocabulary words below...
🖋️ Try writing a few of these as your homework or for kids! ✏️ 🧒 🖋️

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🖨️ TRY PRINT / ADD TO WALL / FRIDGE 🖨️
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✔️ For home for relationships
✔️ At work for nicer environments

WRITE THEM OUT! Help people SEE 👀 the words!

Relativity grows from people and more relativity in the world THE BETTER!... #LoveSystem #SystemofLove / #Fediverse #Friendship

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📋 VOCABULARY 📋
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█ Care

(close attention, concern or responsibility) (noun)

█ Clarity

(the quality, clarity or sharpness of speech)

█ Listening

(to pay attention to a sound) (verb)
(hear out until that person has finished) (verb)

█ Affinity

(characterized by affirmation, constructiveness, or influence for the better; favourable)

(affiliation - The relationship resulting from affiliating one thing with another) (noun)

(association - a connection to or an affiliation with something)

█ Experience

(event(s) of which one is cognizant) (noun)

(activity which one has performed) (noun)

█ Measurability

(able to be measured / quantified) (adjective)

(regular - with constant frequency)

█ Practiced

(actual practice or experimentation, in contrast to just theory) (noun)

(to introduce - to bring into practice)

(to grow stronger)

█ Honesty

(quality of being honest) (noun)

█ Sociability

(sociable, gregarious, affable)
(friendly, courteous, sociable) (adjective)

█ Curiosity

(inquisitiveness; the tendency to ask questions, investigate, or explore) (noun)

█ Compassion

(deep awareness of the suffering of another) (noun)

█ Imagination

(image-making power of the mind) (noun)

(creativity or creative thoughts)

█ Reliability

(regular in timing or other way)

█ Therapy

(treatment of disease) (noun)

(psychological study)

(social psychology / counseling)

(counseling / ontology (study of being) (noun)

psychosis (mental disorder or distortion) (noun)

█ Transparency

(quality of being transparent) (noun)

█ Confidence

(expression or feeling of certainty) (noun)

(self-assurance) (noun)

█ Commitment

(religious - committed to the practice of religion)

(commit - to pledge or bind; to compromise, expose, or endanger) (verb)

█ Passion

(any great emotion) (noun)

(suffering of Jesus) (noun)

(theology - study of God, or a god, or gods) (noun)

█ Respect

(tolerance) (noun)

(to have regard for the rights of others) (verb)

(self-respect - knowledge of one's own worth) (noun)

(admiration for a person)
{transitive}

(to honour - (show praiseworthiness, respect) (noun)

(to bow (to bend oneself as a gesture of respect or deference)

█ Moderation

(to a moderate, in some degree or level of presence or position) (adverb)

█ Sincerity

(quality of being sincere) (noun)

█ Logic

(method of human thought) (noun)

(theory in logic - a set of axioms and all statements derivable from them) (noun)

█ Experimentation

(thought experiment)

(practice / practical experiment - actual operation or experiment, in contrast to theory experiment)

█ Teaching

(evangelistic - enthusiasm for a cause or teaching about some parts of something)

(religious evangelism - promoting the preaching and dissemination of the Christian gospel, teachings of Jesus or any of the spiritual leaders who are assumed to be authors of the Gospels in the New Testament: Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John)

█ Appreciation
(to value highly) (verb)

(to be grateful for something) (verb)

(admiration - adoration) (noun)

█ Welfare
(health, safety, well-being, happiness and prosperity) (noun)

(humanitarian concerned with people's welfare) (adjective)

(humanity - human beings as a group) (noun)

█ Relief

(removal of stress or discomfort) (noun)

(catharsis - a therapeutic technique to relieve tension) (noun)

(assist - help) (verb)

assistant (person who assists or helps someone else)

█ Forbearance

(forbearing, forgiving, tolerant)

█ Toleration

(tolerance (ability to tolerate) (noun)

█ Awareness

awareness (the state of consciousness) (noun)

awareness (the consciousness of a state, or state of mind) (noun)

█ Openness

(receptiveness to new things) (noun)

(intimacy - feeling of closeness and openness towards someone else) (noun)

█ Reasoning

(action of the verb 'to reason') (noun)

(rational - capable of reasoning) (adjective)

█ Diversity

(quality of being diverse; difference) (noun)

(biodiversity - diversity of flora and fauna) (noun)

█ Confluence

(meeting - gathering for a purpose) (noun)

(merging of similar or different elements into a union)

(Flowing - liquid or metaphorically; flowing freely like water; fluid; not solid and not gaseous)

(mix - stir two or more substances together) (verb)

█ Fun

(have fun - enjoy oneself) (verb)

(fun - enjoyment or amusement) (noun)

(have fun - wish someone a good time) (interjection)

█ Kindness

(being kind) (noun)

(heart - emotions or kindness) (noun)

█ Patience

(quality of being patient) (noun)

(not losing one's temper while waiting) (adjective)

█ World-view

(personal view of the world) (noun)

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█ Unity - the state of being one or undivided) (noun)

█ Friendship (countable) - friendly relationship) (noun)

█ #Religion - system of beliefs dealing with soul, deity and/or life after death) (noun)

█ Balance

(to balance / counterbalance)

(to equilibrate - to bring into equilibrium)

(well-balanced; in equilibrium itself or eco-system) (adjective)

(mentally stable and free from psychological disorder) (adjective)

(Calm, serene, well-balanced, all-rounder).

█Knowledge

(fact of knowing about something; understanding, familiarity with information) (noun)

(study - mental effort to acquire knowledge) (noun)

identity (knowledge of who one is) (noun)

█Courage

(quality of a confident character) (noun)

(gutsy - marked by courage) (adjective)

(courageous (of an action, that requires courage) (adjective)

(bold courageous, daring) (adjective)

(direction - indication of the point toward which an object is moving) (noun)

█Coherence

(coherence - quality of cohering; of being coherent) (noun)

(coherent - orderly, logical and consistent) (adjective)

█Goodwill

(good-natured - of or pertaining to a perpetual kind disposition) (adjective)

(the forces or will of good) (noun)

(as a result of good will by someone / a group) (noun)

(showing friendliness or goodwill - warm, approachable)

(fair, justified) (adjective)

(self-denial - an action that sacrifices one's own benefit for the good of others) (noun)

█Health

(state of being free of physical or psychological disease, illness, or malfunction) (noun)

(psychological fitness - general level of positive or thoughts) (adjective)

(body fitness- general physical structure of a human or animal) (noun)

(cure - a method, device or medication that restores good health) (noun)

█Healthy Community

(community - group of people sharing a common understanding) (noun)

(perception - conscious understanding of something) (noun)

█Education

(process or art of imparting knowledge, skill and judgement) (noun)

(self-study (study without the aid of a formal education institution) (noun)

(self-education; self-directed learning) (noun)

█Satisfaction

(fulfilment of a need or desire) (noun)

█Perseverance

(persevere - to live, survive) (verb)

(Psychology: perseverate - repeat a response after the cessation of the original stimulus)

█Solidarity

(union of interests, purposes or sympathies among members of a group)

(unifying bond between individuals with common goal or enemy) (noun)

(psychological or material support) (noun)

to solidify (to become solid)

█Reflection

(act of reflecting, thinking more)

(careful thought or consideration) (noun)

█Empathy

(understanding situation)

(sympathy - as a person / humanity) (noun)

█Calm

(free from anger and anxiety) (adjective)

(calmly - in a calm manner) (adverb)

(condition of being unworried and free from anger) (noun)

(peaceful - motionless and calm; placid) (adjective)

(relaxation - act of relaxing or the state of being relaxed) (noun)

█Courteous

(showing regard for others) (adjective)

(affable - friendly, courteous, sociable) (adjective)

█Flexible

(easily bent without breaking) (adjective)

(flexibility - quality of being flexible) (noun)

█Understand

(know / grasp - to understand an idea or subject) (verb)

(to be aware of the meaning of) (verb)

▌(to stand under authority - "I understand this letter means XYZ terms and conditions...")

(hard experience shared in sympathy / consolation as a human being) (adjective)

█Gamification

(to treat as a sport)

(a regular "game" using of certain active variables from life and usually achievements, rewards, medals, acknowledgement given in virtual or non-virtual ways sometimes as incentive)

█Variation

(not just one way always)

(to play and have fun in other ways)

█Communication

(messages or interaction between people)

(carrier of a way, acting as messenger for a person or philosophy)

█Persistence

(continuous)

(not giving up easily)

█Understanding

(being flexible with someone or about any issue or topic)

(grasping / knowing the real core point of it all, usually from time invested and dedicated looks into something)

(empathy / sympathy)

█Exploration

(travel for the purpose of discovery)

(careful systematic search)

(systematic consideration)

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WHAT WE ALL WANT FROM OF THESE WORDS.... BECAUSE WE'RE HUMAN - I THINK THEREFORE I AM...
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We all want for love / care / respect "or else" the opposites start to occur like cancer (various levels) and things (people) get left neglected and also untrained.

We let the bad in by not doing the good basically as it's a kind of maintenance / repair-as-you go.
NOT just "we wait until it's fully broken!" or when person gets suicidal!)
Just the way things are and how things get without caring and doing the people work in every level of life during everything.

As much as you "don't have time" all these things (or their opposites) do catch up - so this is actually saving your time when you family or project doesn't fall apart!!! The damage is reduced / people don't waste our time later or bad things happen still but not without healthy use of healthy ways and even disconnection can be done better at the end and lessons learned much better ! So to practise talking now (at whatever level) pays off in the end to do more careful work together / constructing something beyond

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CAPITALISM IS BETTER FASTER NO?
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Capitalism also as we have learned CAPITALISM DOESN'T WORK - it does care for what you think or choose - it's mostly authoritarian and profit-minded.

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START YOUR OWN SYSTEM
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It can mean starting something from this perspective that communication is better - because it's true many people just won't listen - but who is also offering or training people in these things - maybe you with this printed!

Yu literally have to create life yourself if it doesn't exist (on top of existing very pure sources, like I did with this list from the dictionary !!
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THE END RESULT?
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Once you as individually and family learn to print and share these things (stick on your fridge/door), it's techniques and sentiments can "live on themselves" (in others)...

WHY YOU TEACH ME ANYTHING - YOU'RE PROFILE IS A JOKE!

Love / care / respect is an intentional system, individually carried out for overall humanity - I'm not an NGO or anything big but as a human I stand or good - measurably, words and actions.

This can also start with you and more people taking just 1 picture and having the atmosphere of it reach others (give peaceful words a chance?)... We just needs humans to spread it somewhat and daily conversations get better as and people talk more and pass better words on

Sticking it up somewhere (friedge or wall) as is a good conversation point and piece of interest / meditation / discussion during dinner etc.

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LOVE GOES OUT AND COMES BACK AROUND AND IN.
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💌 Much love goes out to humanity, get in contact if interested... 💌

We know how it feels without love of various kinds (at work, home, outside) - so let's not neglect any of these smaller things - I'm not even talking big "love" / hippyness, but the smaller things and bigger efforts to improve vocabulary and practice it at home / on the internet as group chats etc... all can be a better therapy 💌

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WHY THESE WORDS?
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"System of Love" is from a list I collected over the years in my own relationships and looked them all up either from my words, partners or observations (everyone in my life!)

Related to love, care and respect needed between people more words are sometimes very crucial in heated battles or complex situations... learn well as it makes for less anger or else all hell breaks loose! 😃

Boost 🚀 if you would like to see more of these things practised in life.

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ALSO FOR THE SCIENCE TYPES
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#QOTO and #STEM perhaps are not alway emotionally minded or trained so it's also for people who dont' get exposed to why it's important to talk (to human, not just computers!).
Even as a science or biology consider of that mainly starts and ends with emotions (human input ouput) - check out Bruce Liption!

That goes beyond externally programming machines and more capitalistic styles of hiring people just to get stuff done - because computers and capitalism are without caring mostly and don't ask or design around what people think - it's mostly top-down authoritative (at least in modern day STEM).

Learning love (or to love others) or even to fight well, isn't exactly what school teaches everyone so we need these kinds of posters and reminders...

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▌💗 System of Love 💗 by #FreeSchool ▌
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ANTI-WORDS DICTIONARY
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█ Globalisation - Globalisation (a process of making world economy dominated by capitalist models) (noun)

or

- process of going to a more interconnected world) (noun)

▌(credit and debit - balance of an account) which as a banking system can never be balanced as money is constantly loaned again and again creating more debt than equalisation

▌(debt / society balance - an action, state of mind, or object one has as an obligation to perform for another) (noun)

▌(money owing - that one person or entity owes or is required to pay to another) (noun)

The uncaringness is like a void people "live" in.

The #shrug ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ or shruggie.

Best as original. #Emoji is unclear 🤷

The central character "ツ" is the character tsu from Japanese katakana.

Some more examples; https://textfac.es

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ (◕‿◕✿) (ʘ‿ʘ)
ヾ(⌐■_■)ノ♪ (▀̿Ĺ̯▀̿ ̿) ༼ʘ̚ل͜ʘ̚༽
(•_•) (⌐■_■) ლ,ᔑ•ﺪ͟͠•ᔐ.ლ (~_^)
^̮^ (>人<) ◔̯◔ ಠ‿↼ (ʘᗩʘ')
(｡◕‿◕｡) (ง°ل͜°)ง ╚(ಠ_ಠ)=┐

"Love all, serve all.
Together we can make the world better. Get involved."

- #Quote jimmahar @jimmahar

"If people is not at the center of your development process, you can't be a good developer."

- #Quote Curioso 🍉 🇺🇦 (jgg)
@jgg

from: https://qoto.org/@jgg/113108923966711633

"...The fight against #Poverty #Hunger #Joblessness #Homelessness #Disease... lack of... #Electricity #Water #HealthCare etc...

"...it may prove to be a more difficult battle than a battle fought with arms"

====== MY INTERPRETATION ======

Solving on poverty etc might be harder than achieving independence as only one part of 'freedom' and should be an ongoing thing... not oppression from internal forces...

Winning ⚔️ independence and peace 🕊️ on home different.

====== ALSO ======

Mandela Almost sounded against US at one point and actually explained it well "some consider the world their battle field" so I thought that was interesting too until he welcomed US companies to South Africa which was going backwards for me

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Nelson_Mandela_voice.ogg

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nelson_Mandela

#Governments literally wants dirty business
(business = extraction for pure #profit in everything)

Government and political parties often claim to manage and improve things... but mostly "profit" is the "economy" definition they mean.

#Government #profit > #economy > #power

Would you Buy $19.99 for $20.00 !?

https://yewtu.be/watch?v=hJ9yBgTp9UQ&t=0m26s

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Would you pay for #Money ?
(because that's what the system is making people do!
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YES - because you probably are and if you accept the banking system then OTHER PEOPLE PAY for money itself ?

ISN'T THAT CRAZY ?

Imagine people PAY for money itself ?

- paying for loan
- pays fees. % etc...

So you too are reducing the worth of money...

Paying to get loan or paying slowly 10,000 for 100K is still making it it worth 90K overall (even though it will say 100, it's worth is 90).

I understand there is all this tomfoolery in logic that "you are investing" ...in a house (also getting more expensive)... or in a company... but while loans dilute the money "market" everyone is losing and devaluing the money itself !

This is a comedy clip video example of what I mean just literally a second or two...

"Buy $19.99 for $20.00" !

https://yewtu.be/watch?v=hJ9yBgTp9UQ&t=0m26s

Do you see it possible to improve people more than devalue money between us ?

#Money #Banks #Cheating #Maths #Negative #Numbers = #Debt #Slavery

#Question Do you see it possible to improve people more than just tech?

Many coding geniuses, except maybe Linus Torvalds himself, seem to be happier with programs than people.

What is your experience of programmers and tech folk in general (without any hate here in mind other than "what about improving the people skills" a bit more)

#Relationships #Programmers #Tech
#Improving people more than tech?
#PeopleSkills + #BetterPeople ?

The word "Democracy" I'm not sure actually exists in practice. It seems more a word than something actually done (being represented properly by elected oblivious stay-in-lane representatives I wouldn't trust with conversation let alone represent me).

❓ Is "Democracy" just the many also oblivious, even the cleverest who might also be "hoping" for logic and "balance" to come to the surface when it doesn't?

❓ Is "Democracy" actually trying to achieve, through millions of unique voices, what is impossible to do the on a large scale as representation and care?,

❓ Is "Democracy" the 3rd meaning in my dictionary so the people have the 1st meaning in mind while 2nd and 3rd meaning is what state / government uses all-the-while ?

Noun: democracy

🙍 1. A political system ruled by the people, either directly or through elected representatives
2. The doctrine that the numerical majority of an organized group can make decisions binding on the whole group
3. A state under the direct or representative rule of its people

[WordWeb.info]

⬆️ The = Government (which is slowly becoming the same thing!)

Just saying words might not actually work as a system but exist in the dictionary). Words can mean something but doesn't mean they need to work in reality.
Also words can be taken over to mean whatever people mean today so it's own context of "today" anyway it seems it's far fetched and perhaps just another words used by politics to make people think they are in a Democracy (again words twisted by those in it toward the largely uneducated public).

Democracy in it's best case, as I see it, needs smaller pools of people and more dynamic style of "system" because of the unique differences of individuals themselves and their locality.

Democracy is not a one-size fits all system called "Democracy".

Part of it are good like "good communication" and other components but MILLIONS REPRESENTED BY A FEW PEOPLE ? NO.

Elected or not by today's standards of politics, Democracy seems like a label used but if you talk to the average persons they might not even know what it is...

"Democracy" as a word - My Definition as a Disclaimer...

(Although disclaimer, I'm not sure if Democracy even exists (is it just many voices hoping for logic to come to surface?), just in it's own context anyway, it needs to be a dynamic style / improving hopefully).

People we save, might save us.

Words have 2...3...4... meanings
Dictionary / Language is therefore by nature misleading...

Collectivism (as example)

= 1. Soviet communism
OR
= 2. A political theory that the people should own the means of production

So if I say I don't like "Collectivism"
❓ Do I dislike 1? Soviet communism

or

❓ Do I dislike 2? A political theory that the people should own the means of production

❓ or dislike BOTH?

#Dictionary = #Division
Multi-meaning words are therefore by nature #misleading / full of #misunderstanding ...

growth = success (usually)

however growth in just numbers without mindset growth is dangerous.

#Mastodon for example is growing and so are the youtube links which is Google.

So YouTube Google on Mastodon or linking to making a kind of Advert Farm for them here - which is not the aim but often comes first with users and is not acknowledged or curbed enough (or at all) by admins and users to do different or try something else (filtered links or firefox plugin etc)

Those who might have come here for similar reasons (non adverts) put links with adverts! Crazy!

So we grow the SAME cancers here / allow links tracking users or just link to non-Mastodon #ethics and expect that to work?

A least people could filter their links to videos like this

https://invidious.jing.rocks/watch?v=LP1V8G-JPLQ

or video channels linked like this:

https://invidious.jing.rocks/channel/UCswH8ovgUp5Bdg-0_JTYFNw

☯️ Karma - "What goes around comes around.,."

Ask Government THIS!

Targets are for 2050 ⚠️ ❓
But that year is at least 6 or 7 governments away!

Does government have conservation or demand reduction targets for this year? And next 5 years?

(otherwise projections are meaningless and legally NOT binding!)

A binary choice of either big #business or big #government.

(Two choices, same choice or result)

Frank Zappa -"Dumb All Over"
#Music #Audio #Track

https://invidious.fdn.fr/watch?v=Y8TKiRo-W4U