an interesting conversation. The person who wrote the text xennobe copied here will have a hell of a time meeting a compatible possible partner.
Some compromising needed.
It's lovely to use lower profile messaging systems, I tried and liked Telegram, but for any messaging software, not having contacts makes it dead and sterile. 😔
best is software that is available across platforms; doesn't force you to be in a mobile device (like Whatsapp) to install and use it.
Some companies do make the effort to offer cross platform tools, avoiding the enclosed garden mentality.