Yesterday I had kind of a fckedup day.. When I woke up my gf was on the phone with our elderly friend on speaker so I overheard a conversation about me not paying enough money to my gf for all bills and her savings. This is the same guy who offered me a new MacBook a week ago if I could sell some of his old stuff and add money myself and now I overheard him saying this..

I got out of bed kinda angry and disappointed since he apparently talks behind my back while his actions say otherwise! He never has a bad word to say to me..

So I called him and said we could better cancel the new MacBook since I still have one that works and send the money to my gf for her savings and he said that was a good idea ​

I am so disappointed in him for talking behind my back that I'm completly done with him. If he calls or asks for any help again I'm gonna charge €20 per hour so I can save up myself.

I was not supose to hear the conversation but I did, since it was on speaker and they where almost yelling..

Don't get me wrong, I know it's just a MacBook and the gesture was good intended but for every little thing I gotta jump through hoops with him, like he's keeping me on a line or something..

And in the same time my gf and his daughter (who are good friends) have gotten the following from him: both a new electric bike, a new washing machine, a new dishwasher, a mega huge TV, a samsung surround set, a new bed and a a new couch!

I know I can also use it, but noting it "really mine"🤔 Every item i own in this world i can count on 1 hand

@stux You sure he isnt trying to steal your gf?

@freemo hahaha naaah! He's almost dead

@stux That just means he has nothing to lose by trying :)

@freemo ​ Well actually.. my gf is his only friend left in this world

Both his daughters dont want anything to do with him etc..

@stux :(

@freemo At this point i really don't care anymore ​ He also lost me as a friend thats for sure..

I cant deal with dishonest ppl

@stux You are dutch, you can barely hold in random commentary, let alone deal with lies :)

@freemo Hahahaha you got it! ​

Only them in politics have those skills, but none other ​

@stux the straight forward, no holding back, super honest to a fault, thing the dutch have going is my favorite :)

@freemo Hmm yeasss! I love that also! Dude, it saves soo much time if everyone where to do that ​

But keep it "polite" ^ Or just brutally honest in a polite way

@stux yea obviously it cant be out of mallice. Most dutch do it to be constructive. Its so refreshing.

Though to be fair most of the world find you guys a bit too honest :)