@freemo the difference is from technological advances in metallurgy and the change from black powder to modern smokeless powders
Modern ammunition designs just don't need anywhere near the same amount of case capacity to generate the same amount (or more) energy.
The .38 vs 9mm is a good example as they have roughly the same diameter bullet but the 9mm has almost ~30% more energy despite being ~30% shorter overall.
He is probably talking about copper jackets. Back in the cowboy days they were just lead slugs.
There is probably all sorts of crazy mettalurgy at play in the bullets of big guns.
Then there are barrels too. Today the barrel of a gun is much stronger and as such our bullets can produce much higher pressures.
@freemo @drewfer I can see that you'd feel silly if the barrel got wider after a few shots, the gases got past it and the bullet just plopped out onto the floor.