Imagine someone telling you the basis of life and realising there is nothing else to do but to re-learn the whole basis of life itself! 0_0
Imagine realising the basis of your life comes from many (if not) all assumptions that are the basis of life that end up as malpractice of life, miseducation and what past parents couldn't catch up with in the changes.....
... and then realising how we need to re-learn it all in order to live ethically or at least bend it back... 0_0
[ This might answer why someone else is here for your questions... ]
DM's welcome... to work on it together (or occasionally less alone). It's needed and important.