Helping the wrong people is hard for people who naturally want to help others... (many of us and on many levels people are wrong and know how they take advantage of people)

So we end up in packages helping the wrong people or not seeing the onion skin we are in and real 'work' happening.

People are helpless in helping and the wrong people and groups take advantage. This mini-lesson also about how hard it is for people to say know or have their political groundings clear (to themself- not always needed to explain to others).

It's your responsibility to say no and the rest of us also (as well knowing bastards don't play on the same level and don't play by the same polite rules).