Seems like there is a definite difference or use-case to the way some "sexism" is said... so the meaning / what someone seems to depending on who / how they said it or who / how they meant it !!... when it's not the obvious time of deliberate language toward sexism....

More on this welcome, even to be a bit sexist in a (but do not it's read by many so DM is probably best to work it out before too much distract (which I hope my text doesn't do)....