Friendship Lessons - At the beginning is aesthetics or assumptions.... and then GROWING the relationship....
- At the beginning is more the aesthetics or assumptions.... hopes..
-then there is the dispelling of the aesthetics or assumptions.... hope is less...
- then there is the realising of truth (that they are not 100% what you imagined or want them to be) or copy of want you want in your life... even some ugly trial error habits and details which are also part of growing, they come and go
- then for those that go a bit more of the distance, a great growing to like each other... and even polarity no matter who/what the person (the art of growing to like anyone since there are so many ways)
- then realising after years that it takes years and they are / were better than you imagined and just naturally we can't living in each others heads and shoes to realise it all so being easy helps...
Moral of story - Friendships is for life in whatever way and level - disconnection is for those that don't really understand or enjoy the ups and downs and differences... and also can't stand up for themselves often (runners)
Stick around, wait around when you don't have to and you'll be surprised what friendship means and how many different forms can come usually from you being ok with yourself first....
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More points here of becoming friends (in case you're doing a project on it or something !) the growth and mentioning some of the stages
OFTEN I FEEL THE GROWING PART IS MISSED
LACK OF SKILLS / KNOWING WHAT MAKING FRIENDS MEANS!
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http://freeschool.0id.org/friendship-evolution-of-being-friends/
