I'm looking for tips... how to solve this human equation:

I don't claim to write this perfect... but this is also the problem...

people are not expected to write perfectly are they?

- my problem from that is:

people often don't want to learn longer / harder stuff

- perhaps that isn't true but I determine the above by how many avenues it goes wrong when you have

more volume of text or add more depth....

- it's like a chess engine but people's brain on the lowest setting (not even middle)

So more definition to what they are ASKING AND THEY CARE ABOUT but brain conks out when you try present almost anything

either their language usage is different, their expectation in your answer... it's as if there is not exploration needed, that everyone speak a common language and style....

I HAVE TO SAY (NOT TO THOSE I'VE SPOKE TO BUT MAYBE GENERALLY THIS IS MY 'WHAT THE FUCK MOMENT!' (Meaning I'm stuck and holy moly it's perplexing and ilogical, it's not big anger)

So when other people they ask questions they either expect short answers or can't handle long answers <-------------this is it
When did anyone learn all the time from only short answer to what measurably is always more complicated in answering that asking!

It's not the same for everybody but basically they expect to understand something new without using the brain too much or it's like a generation (civilisation) where any working out (like maths) and any heating up of brain involves blaming me!!!

This comment above is also a reflection of the person who can't read into it. And doesn't help they don't mention or use logic) to say WHAT PART or how...

It's such a bad game I always don't blame people for going nuts! It's like the worst crazy where people seem sane but their backwards!

I hope I eat my words here, it would be easier than a long life of backwards progress or 2 steps forward 5 steps back
- abandoning
- funnelling emotion
- finding person issues (with me and/or themself).
- just anything to avoid doing their homework (and usually it's their stuff or our stuff so it's not just selfish me here)

That's the 'short' version for what is fuuuucked up! Welcome writing your experience, even if it's slightly different to above or if you're not sure how to answer (I will assume this is not easy both in my saying or answering!).

Some might call it TLDR syndrome or being over-protective with strangers, but even with people I'm been friends with long time, seems common with everyone
people say they are stupid and I admit people may have black holes but almost an unsaid total lack of responsibility is when they don't want to talk more after just startin(!)or like they have very small brains and feel like "oh why the person has to tell me about the worlds troubles even though yeah I'm part of it"!...

(they are nice but also seems weird stranger or nto)

... bizarre

I might add moer to this but let me know and give it your best shot (but don't kill yourself or me over it!!!!)
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