The Internet is still a big gap between people,

ESPECIALLY those not understanding time is needed to know and accept most people are good and need interaction.

(So even if I or you could even help them, they would be too cautious, over-paranoid etc.. and feed their own "but I don't know you" vicious circle and frustrate themselves at your advances of anything.

People wanting jobs also just don't have a chance getting past their own barriers...