Giving opportunity to others to give to you- by not giving in...

By not giving in, or keeping more what is ideal. you allow others to try provide for you what was is usually taken away (choice or paying more than understanding) or replaced artificially (computers) and you find another way (a test for yourself too to live the way you want or looking for - though I don't mean dump computers always or live in the jungle- pick and choose)

It will always be a bit left and right trial and error and can reach a bit of a breaking point but done slowly (talking) and managed slowly (if possible) I think people and yourself can see you're no just being problematic and actually help / be more sympathetic since you're spending time on it with then.

To get people seeing you're not being manipulative or sucking from people, you're just trying to living more naturally / humanly

And even bending the tree of justice back towards centre by balancing personally the cold system designed by 'who knows who?' and 'way back when?' !)