Fediverse Tip... (Notification Bell) - If you're serious about change - add notifications to people's profile and try them for a week or weeked with popups... Unfollow after a week(end) if 0 interesting comes from it. (So rather than following everyone, understand them 1 by 1 more personally and fully (them keep or delete/ditch them!)...
ℹ️ Example message below for your new followers. You can copy the sentiments to help others sort out messages to see your thoughts (better than infinite-scroll spaghetti home timeline and more as-you-go thinking together and reaction times). So for example:
"Hi I've accepted follow request... super!
+ Please click bell 🔔 notification to follow now for a bit (with popup on screen momentarily) as this help us see things better and it saves the need catchup up later too and if there is nothing interesting or 0 good from me for 1 week please click off bell or unfollow (it's good to say you tried and move me on - keep or delete!)
Most messages get lost on home page (infinite scroll with 100 other people seemingly illogical threads of posts) - so as I'm serious about change - and I hope you are too - that's my take on clicking 🔔 for a week (click my profile and then bell). Thanks for trying. And more power to you! 💪 "
💁 (can change this to your own style towards helping us manage message and see each other better and move on to finding better matched people)