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Circular people create problems / make themselves victim with their own short methods and ways that doesn't help them with others... 

Circular people are often short-sighted and don't listen. It's been my experience not everyone...
Many good people with the opposite too BUT I do want to say there is a pattern and to pluck it like an unwanted weed from the ground!

Generally common with 'busy' computer-intensive folk (not all by far). But those that will spend time and have no time (with computers) and lack seeing the humanism that will win all things back / win the wars... But nope they *choose* to be victim from genuinely interested people or get in a loop to try prove you as bad.

Many can call them "stupid" "unintelligent" etc especially when they call you names or can't be bothered to read *any* part of your bio! This sentence is directed to ---> @eriner but without hate... just chose to call me out with nothing to back it up and then I still didn't go away. Nothing major but bad for Fediverse.

People can create themselves as a victim, *creating* our problems. Maybe it's a form of "I have to be resistant in order to progress" or assuming a high guard from seeing all the bad in the world but measurably it isn't bad and people would know about it.
If Matt or someone can't even read your bio - not even a few paragraphs - then there's something wrong and with the nicest of people that's actually worse than shitposter as it masks bad / unfavourable community behaviour. He's a server guy (confirming my profiling) so I guess automatically you can react like this with any responsibility. I know some people think "I don't need them so whatever" which isn't great and I'm just saying here without trying to police it.

Things continue just because a person contacts and they insist in their own circular ways to both your detriment.
Truthfully I guess if you're more busy than I am it's more tempting to not treat people well or make excuse - but since I have time I think it's worth documenting a bit... who else would do this and if I see more often then I'd stop saying to NOT this please.. and give example too (it's not name and shame, but it is a shame for 'mankind' let's say)

Anyway... Neutrally spoken it's a "circular" person and short self-induced thing (imagine people react badly just from someone interested in their work for example).

It's self-perpetuated and self-feeding (imagine the dragon eating it's own tail).

For the rest of the people on Fefiverse it's natural to want to magnetise to others, join them somewhat, be part of their life, a movement, become better in one's self, participate... many things not weird!!... but blocking people seems 'too much' even from 2/3 messages and importantly without much reasoning *together* (more 1 way stuff like Capitalism would talk down to you or at you).
Then calling me "AI" - I mean why even use time for that? (have to ask yourself and really wasn't that much more said)

People can make themselves a Victim + Create the problem when there wasn't one in the first place!
And then the shame of life not to communicate genuinely with genuine people (I'm sure he does but why not with me!).

Sad but don't be that person.

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