You can still have reasonable conversations with quite a few of them if you don’t do that.
I tried this for over a year. The only person who could have anything resembling rational conversations was the admin, but even he seemed to lose that ability after awhile.
Over-reacting to someone assuming the "fuck this guy" comment is somewhat more / or less what you meant?...
@realcaseyrollins @sim @graf Just about this post and image of conversation, seems all good but, if I got it right, the "fuck this guy" comes into play (quite logically somewhat) but perhaps said not as hard as others hear it) so you adjusted the meaning (great all good) but then suddenly graf someone else listen suggests a racial thing and you go into that... almost over-reacting to someone assuming "fuck this guy" is somewhat more / or less what you meant.
Seems like terminating a conversation way more than needed / going on a tangent. Do you get what I mean in just reflecting that in general?
Also asking to see if worth following more (as I guess words and meanings do need to match logic somewhat)
@freeschool @sim @graf I’m not completely sure I follow. Are you saying that I mistook what graf said as anger when in reality it was something more lighthearted?
@realcaseyrollins @graf @sim oops yeah - apologise and 🏃 I exit fast if all is fine with all!
@realcaseyrollins @graf @sim It was the nuances of what something might mean that seemed deadly misleading (but I don't mean in jokes or something I missed before though that's included somewhat).
Just as observer hard to tell if someone says something and what it means if they almost use a different vocabulary or more usually emotionally charged one but it not really being used as strongly.
So usually short in length, seemingly emotional can not mean as much and for example my 'fuck you' to someone could be totally light-hearted and even like "I like you" lol but for others coming across it it seems clear they more use these words in for example also saying someone is retarded - like how much they mean that
So to avoid this I would be tempted not to reply (in fact probably am doing so) as I'd always be 2nd guessing and need to clarify what this or that word means as sort of marker or vocab for them or graf in this case.
Totally light hearted but would even want graf to think I'm making stuff up also - just was oblivious to way language was being used :)
And I could even be wrong still....!
Ok time to use that running away / exit emoji again for talking too much
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