Each of us has our own rules of engagement, but consider this: would you ask someone to do you a favor, two seconds after you met them in person? Doesn't make sense, right? So, maybe reconsider doing that online as well.
Modern life needs more favours / friendship / help than not...
@kimlockhartga The funny or irony of this logic is you ask those kinds of rhetorical questions and assume almost all are going to not do someone they just met a favour, but for me and other that is all we have in the world to try to do (as sad as it is) because the cold pay of money or paying for things (that cut out all the warm stuff is far from better) but again probably lacks real example but in general YES ask me more than far-away distanced politeness or whatever else...
If you have a scenario or if you're really that famous to have it more than 3 times a day, let me know!
And side note maybe is also saying a nice-no reply is also need as training as people do frown. gossip, burn a chip about it when they could say better...
Love or general giving is more about the motherly type of giving which nobody gives you respect for at the end but you do it for children and others could be the same (bad actors aside)
This whole thing of needing to pay first or just take questions for what they are, is literally killing things (not to make it too extreme the other way in saying but really capitalism taught people well and they probably can't even see it)...
A bit o wisely spent consideration is not impossible... 😉
