As the #Answers to why people act up - you can see this mainly as a

1- Lack of system having a template or pattern for "caring" at all

2- people not doing it because nobody is forcing them (they think it's ok because of that and no job forces to are more for life in other ways)

1 + 2 = DE-FACTO ULTIMATUMS seen on Fediverse

"Involve me in your life, else face my critique and stifled feelings..."

And I think that can be solved but yeah needs us all to do the work Modern Capitalism doesn't do at all and is cutting all limbs of as we speak.... we need to grow those back.

This can be seen as my own battle but if you can see these things from yours and his and her lacking then you can see why people ignoring each other or ignoring part of humanness = bugging each other at some stage - That is unavoidable so instead of waiting for next person bugging the other - TO SOLVE IT!

YOU MUST DO THE EMOTIONAL PART IF YOU WANT A CARING LIFE whether it's people emotionally quitting projects at "unexpected" times (it all accumulates if emotions not done as-you-go) or people acting up in chat... the why is important which I'm detailing here a bit...

Other points why:

█ If you don't do the "human work" or "people work" in life then what do you expect if another person shits on you and doesn't compost it in the right place?

█ the system is not providing people meaningful work so this add to everything overall

█ all is about computers / faster ways to trap people or increase false-positive progress trees as "progress" when people largely don't want 150% more and happy how it is so I think we're in over-shoot or mono-working too much

█ you are not doing human duties or responsibility in listening / doing therapy for others (you are not in this circle or realm at all - YOU are just in your computer "work / gaming evenings right? That's my "job" i,e, I don't need to do anything else because state doesn't push me to other than work for it mainly + taxes)

█ Where's the love for people (love means many parts like listening, self-improving while giving opportunities etc...