Blame others - it's ok after trying! Measure it and have BLAME constructively after trying! People were never truely into cooperate... all talk / can't push through doubt
The same negative / luke-warm patterns (never going to swim but talking about it all the time).
People who twist what someone says or label them too early are also more to blame than anyone else try to explaining and stay in conversation longer towards understanding and providing more information than less.
I'm talking genuine people.
At the end people need to accept they might be different (as basic as that seems, that seems to be needed to remind people) and keep finding better focus like hopping on better stones together. Not just OMG you're still using Windows... so I can't talk to you. Find out why even but do move on...
People tend to find land-mines and step on them almost like self-baiting themselves without realising THAT is the big problem.
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More is better I think in terms of info / trying (and learning to filter / cherry pick comes with it in time as well as those controlling themselves if too unleashed)
Less writing is only going to rear it's head later possibly and at the worst point in time if communication isn't practised to understood / balanced in each other.
✅ People are consistently not very good
but
☑️ if you are the one focussing on the better things then it almost doesn't matter people are not very good above a certain communication standard because you continue a healthy ping pong and get better - that's all !
☑️ It's usually the others if they are negative and unconstructive / destructive.
