I revise this a bit and send it out once in a while...

Because it seems that:

🔴 we can't team up / invest in each other... indirectly or suddenly

🔴 even on #Fediverse we are not sure what to do for each other and it's one-way mostly...

Perhaps this is more of a technical Fediverse where Tech is binding people BUT inevitably that is sponsored / setup by big tech or provided by it's infrastructure.

So Mastodon as software or people ? As development software development or people personality development ?

Maybe both but people need more than just the software (yes that means making friends not just making software).

That's the short version above.

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The longer points below:
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Yes - People need time with this 'togetherness' and being friendly ( 🎵 hate is all the world has ever seen lately 🎵 )

So just as 'humanity' itself needs to do their homework properly so that we stop #war, we individually have to hold hands (a bit) one at a time - the work we never wanted to do...

It's like if we can do this 1 friendship-like thing on whatever level people are and going to enjoy making each other's dreams without all in stress and money all the time... so even as a side-sport or dojo we visit occasionally, we help each other up from the interaction observed here and ask / get / do / give / copy something better, also in terms of psychology / mental stuff (not just physical or servers).

I get that online isn't easy (it's only 25years most are online at higher-speeds of internet) but isn't there always what I can I do for you and vice versa ?

Mostly we're already doing something so helping FUNNEL that all is a GREAT IDEA even by asking frequently.

It's the finding of that answer we solve everything as light friendship as-we-go or #adhoc, #p2p with whoever is visually or textually passing by...

Passing by more often increments the getting to know / trust factor in any #movement / #progress / #political - #personal thing)

What do you think?

Other notes below:

(again sometimes I change sometimes not)

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PSYCHOLOGY STRENGTHENING?
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On a psychological note I think people are getting ill deeply / psychologically. Where it's even hard to speak.
Psychosomatic things means disturbances in which emotional maladjustment are almost physically stopping people moving (forward or anywhere)...

The #answer I see is only to get it all out and break through it together as partners (just accepting it all and dealing with it, to actually solve it, not just covering up or ignoring symptoms).

It feels like the more you try, the more people are feeling something which shows something is there living even if it's not ideal at the very beginning - I after wil be fine,.. better communication - otherwise it would be impossible to separate feeling itself any other way and say "RIGHT let's just deal with it as much as we can in 20mins!"

I don't want to conclude people are a complete flop or dud but seems so...

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Anyway give your opinion and any guesses about these thigns...
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1 ➡️ why like-minded people might be exactly the people most skeptical?

(skilled people can be skeptical about everything which is fair)

2 ➡️ Why people won't team up with those similar-minded randomly?
(maybe feel threatened or competitive I guess) or can't go deeper in testing me / people to increment something - but if can't trust from the get go, then how to increase trust?

3 ➡️ why people might not reply or even block me, so even a short or long message doesn't work
(seems technically better people but still dead fish socially ?)

4 ➡️ why he internet is full of pseudonyms and avatars but still today people are feeling something about accounts without name? (seems really similar to passport control where it's name and number or you're a suspect). By nature of internet it's not for everyone to be spreading all their details (especially if anti-system) and social media provides someone's profile to answer a lot of things so why is name so important or why are people happier when I fake it instead of nickname / pseudo-name on mailing lists (admins asked me to do that). Is it all that "fake" is better cover for real life and accepting people's existence?

FINAL NOTE
These things deliberately I know are challenging and 'advanced' - some will just genuinely not remember or lose messages and yes 100 thigns so it could be that = but many seem just not ready for 2-way communication ... and more one-way posting.
Even veterans in the game haven't got #communications down well and are not sucking talent / contributions or involving #participation which after years you'd think they'd perfected by now...

So maybe this is my work to do but it start with you being able to increment more happier / trusting way instead of going backwards...

Feel free to reply and contact me.
Communications seems the core of everything else.