It’s a bummer that #qoto is being blocked by #hachyderm, a friend just moved to that instance a few days ago. 
@imabuddha Yeah. Unfortunately some part of the Fediverse is quite tribalistic like this.
I'm afraid you'll have to discuss with your friend how to tackle this problem. Maybe a 2nd account, maybe one of you or both move. Maybe just accept as is. Whatever the choice will be, I wish you luck with it!
