@shibao
1) what has your ancestors done that benefits you specifically today?
2) does not keeping with their traditions and draconic mantra hurt their view of you today?
3) If you're already on their shitlist for whatever reason, why do you care what they think?

If my ancestors wanted me to do things a certain way, I'd want a very specific and detailed objective reason why- with reasonable subjective pleas for me to consider that objective concern over our hereditary lineage that would be carried over through my branch in the family tree.