After 2 years I still burn for my girlfriend in college,
does it ever get better or am i cursed to remember her and what could have been till the day I die? 😓
@FailurePersonified only if you choose it. Julia seems to have yoy beat in this regard somehow. don't let them one up you
@colonelj it’s easier for him because he never held her in his arms.
Though yes; I try to move on but some days I’m not as... well today I’m tired and it’s hard not to think about it.
I’m just weary
@FailurePersonified @colonelj Not really, I've had real relationships, and I still think about it every single day. Sometimes there's no healing wounds, we tell people that time does so men hold off on going to Greenland, but it's a contemptible lie. We have to live with the damage for the rest of our lives

Ultimately, wishing for a reality that's already collapsed is useless. That will never make it real no matter the duration or intensity, if anything it makes things worse. You have to build something new or drown.

@niggaflamebuttholeaids

Depends on the circumstances, I guess, but, at least based on my almost no experience, there is. You're never getting over death, so if that's how it is, then, yeah, that's a piece of you condemned to eternal suffering you'll just have to get used to. Otherwise, while initially it's the same or worse, in the long term (2 years? plausible, 3-4 maybe better), if you manage to keep in touch as friends/humans (which fortunately modern technologies allow for), it will help ground you in reality, which usually turns out to be not as bad as you imagined to yourself. I mean, if you never even see her again, how do you know you have feels for her and not some vague recollection of your own emotions?

@FailurePersonified @colonelj

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s'that what you guys do around here? O.o
is that why your pic is black and white? o.O
nope, I'm out

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