being a carer my whole life has pushed me further and further childfree. when I have done my duty as a daughter, my life will be my own and nobody else's.
@Ox ah yes, social overload. it will pass, and then you'll regret this decision. you won't listen either, so just write this down in case I won't be there to say I told you so.
@Ox actually my point is that I've seen more than my fair share of well-meaning women decide they'd be childless for life for any reason, and then deeply regret it after bearing their firstborn would either threaten their lives or be outright impossible. you can fight nature only so long before it defeats you.