@vk2tty @HopelessDemigod @vk6flab I use classic 63% lead solder with the highest flux percentage I can find for everything. I ignore whatever might be there already. Never had a problem.
If I need to solder steel or stainless steel or nickel I use Ruby flux and my regular solder. No problem. People are stunned to see me solder copper wires to stainless steel dinner forks, nickel plated US quarters, US nickels. Easy peasy.