Firstly, I only responded to @melancholic who asked the question about norms.
But since @codeddragon2023@mstdn.social has me muted, I'm more than happy to respond to the argument without fear of bothering them.
NO muting me doesn't show a consequence of me not opting for whatever (I honestly don't even understand what eggshells I was supposed to walk around there, really illustrating my point). It shows that people are in control of their own feeds, which is exactly what I was emphasizing in what I said about norms around here.
So I'd say Ryan here gets it exactly backwards, and demonstrates exactly why I think CWs should not be the norm.
For some reason that's lost to me they didn't want to see my toot, which is fine!, so they muted, which is fine!, and that's why we should empower people to tailor their own feeds to what they want to see instead of going for CWs.