Personally, I believe the better approach focuses on giving users power to shape their experiences, even recognizing the diversity of experience that different users want, rather than focusing on cultural standards.
These are technological challenges that should be approached with technical, not social, solutions.
@volkris @arthrowl @amcewen @siderea
We should definitely use technical solutions to the technical problems in this, but personally I disagree that all of these are technical problems.
I also think that the cultural side is fuzzier than the technical side. There'll be many overlapping and variously different cultural practices; and exceptions to any of the rules. And that's okay. As you say, we don't want one-size-fits-all.
^Adrian