This always comes down to a gender divide. Men like to collaboratively try to solve large problems. Women like to collaboratively empathize with whoever is bitching about large problems.
When we try to mix the two, both sides get pissed off. Men brush women off as "emotional" while women write men off as "reply guys".
At some point, we just have to stop getting pissed off at people who are trying to be helpful and recognize the good intentions.
@weebull True, but generally not by strangers on the internet.