@Vajazzledvagina@spinster.xyz I would certainly understand that one might want to seek community of like minded individuals. Then why a survey that contains those you are opposed to? Why not ask if there are any lesbians of your particular flavour and choice of lesbian that you prefer?

However, I still stand by "why does it have to be about sex"? Are there no other things you are interested in besides sex? Could you not have a discussion about let's say woodworking or pottery with a straight cis-fem? Or veganism with a gay-male or even anthropogenic climate change with a NB or AMAB girl?

Just seems odd that because someone prefers a particular style of sex with a particular style partner that has to be all encompassing number one topic of conversation, with everyone all the time. Reminds me of 12 year old incel boys. Except they eventually grow out of that obnoxious constant sex talk. I am not saying you personally or in particular, but there seems to be so much focus on this...

But, hey, what do I know.

I don't want to kill you or your fellow lesbians. And even if I did, I wouldn't even know that you were one if you didn't tell me? It's not like crossfit or veganism right?