so i was googling how/if personality types and the kind of sex they have are connected. highly controversial. some people saw clear connections while others dismissed the question as ridiculous.

i was wondering about it because i've noticed that my mind has to be in the right place. the physical part has an effect but it isn't enough. and it's a mind space that's challenging to stay in, especially when you're with someone new.

i stop to notice to what's going on, which isn't great for concentration. for an experience like that, you kind of have to lose yourself in it and be a little selfish almost.

i get the impression that some people have a much easier time with this. they don't overthink it. difficult for someone whose entire nature is to examine everything.

and that's why i thought about the connection between personality types and sex.